Yesterday, Sarah and I were taking pictures throughout the construction zones of north high street for a project of hers. In the span an hour-plus, we had received well over 15 honks, jeers, catcalls, etc. These ranged from, "I'd take pictures of you, baby" to my favorite, "Girl, I'd so fuck you." Why is this deemed to be in the least bit okay? Why is the structure of society entirely constructed in a way where I feel violated nearly every time I walk down a street? I went to work after the fact feeling terribly downtrodden.
The biggest question with street harassment: How can we express our feelings without perpetuating the cycle? In my case, I know that I immediately respond with anger and this anger prompts me to want to use some sort of expletive to combat the situation, but I don't think this helps. I do appreciate those who use violence in response to catcalls, but I also think that it could end up worsening the situation. An example of physically fighting back can be found in
Consequence: Beyond Resisting Rape by Loolwa Khazzoom.
Anyway, the point is that we should be discussing what types of arguments we should present in our leaflet/pamphlet. The link I posted a few days ago to the street harassment project in New York may help, but I think that we should definitely add more to it. My hope is to distribute these to women on campus as well as in the community. Maybe we can organize with the university to distribute these to upcoming freshmen in the dorms. We can put copies at the infoshop, kerouac, other local spots. Any other thoughts?
B&P assignment of the week: Identify what it is about street harassment that affects you: use I-statements. (Ex: I feel degraded when... I do not like it when...) If you were to have a rational conversation with someone who harassed you, what would you want to convey? Also, in what way do you want to convey all this to the aggressor: as an impersonal collection of thoughts or an account of individual feelings? both? The responses to these questions are not just for putting on the leaflet but also so that we, as a group, can discuss and understand eachother's perspectives on the issue.
Street Harassment Project examples:
"Women Turn-Offs-
Any kind of street harassment, anytime anywhere!
- Crude remarks by strange men!
- Hearing men rate our bodies like "nice ass"!
- Being groped or rubbed up against!
Women feel only HATRED for the weak, stupid men who treat us this way.We won't take it anymore!!!
Women Turn-Ons
- Being treated with respect!
- Being treated as equals!
And remember guys, NO means NO !"